What happens when the beliefs you were raised with no longer fit the person you’re becoming? In this deeply honest conversation, Jo and I explore the complicated journey of religious deconstruction, identity, neurodivergence, parenting, and learning to question the roles we were taught to play. We talk about growing up within rigid belief systems, the impact leaving organized religion can have on marriage and family, and what it means to rebuild your life around authenticity instead of expectation. We also dive into neurodivergence, masking, gender roles, and the unique challenges of raising neurodivergent children in a world that often values conformity over creativity. Jo shares insights on coaching, self-regulation, and why supporting parents is just as important as supporting children. This episode is for anyone navigating faith shifts, questioning old narratives, parenting differently, or learning who they are underneath years of conditioning. We discuss: ✨ Religious upbringing and faith deconstruction ✨ Marriage, identity shifts, and rebuilding beliefs ✨ Neurodivergence, masking, and gender expectations ✨ Parenting neurodivergent children with compassion and regulation ✨ Technology’s impact on kids and families ✨ Creativity, self-care, and thriving outside traditional boxes ✨ Raising the next generation with more freedom and understanding If you’ve ever wondered, _Who am I without the rules?_ this conversation may resonate deeply. Takeaways * Deconstruction of faith can lead to a journey of self-discovery and liberation. * Parenting a neurodivergent child requires a shift in focus from the child to the parent's behavior and self-regulation. Neurodivergence and Parenting * The Importance of Coaching and Support * Impact of Technology on Parenting * Value of Creativity and Self-Care * Shaping a Thriving Future Generation Chapters * 00:00 Childhood and Upbringing * 10:51 Marriage and Deconstruction * 20:29 Gender Roles and Neurodiversity * 28:03 Impact of Technology on Parenting * 35:16 Value of Creativity and Self-Care

In this episode of *Rebel Lotus*, Danielle sits down with *Evita from Jovita Lifestyle Coaching* for an honest conversation about eating disorders, diet culture, and what it really takes to build a healthy relationship with food. Evita shares her insights on how diet culture shapes the way we think about our bodies, food, and self-worth—and why so many women feel trapped in cycles of restriction, guilt, and shame around eating. Together, Danielle and Evita explore how to begin *unlearning harmful beliefs about food*, reconnecting with your body, and creating sustainable, healthy habits that come from self-respect instead of punishment. This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by diet rules, struggled with body image, or wondered if there’s a better way to approach health and nutrition. ✨ Because true wellness isn’t about control—it’s about *trust, balance, and freedom.* Evita & Jovi are Co-Founders of the Brand Jovita Lifestyle; a wellness coaching company that focuses on nutrition, fitness, hormone & Metabolic health and creating sustainable healthy lifestyles for women.  _EVITA IS THE CO-CEO OF JOVITA LIFESTYLE & CREATOR OF THE METABOLIC AWAKENING METHOD_ EVITA HAS HELPED HUNDREDS OF WOMEN DITCH DIETING, RESET THEIR METABOLISM, AND FINALLY KEEP THE WEIGHT OFF—FOR GOOD. A former binge eater and chronic yo-yo dieter, she broke free from a 15-year cycle of restriction, obsession, and weight regain. After losing 60+ pounds and healing her metabolism naturally, Evita now maintains her results effortlessly—eating over 2,000 calories a day and thriving with balanced hormones, no medications, and zero extremes. She’s the pro-metabolic coach that high-achieving women turn to when they're done with the starvation diets, over exercising, and ready to reclaim their energy, confidence, and long-term results without wrecking their hormones or relationship with food. No more 1200-calorie misery. No more burnout. No more starting over every Monday. Evita isn’t just a mentor—she’s living proof that sustainable fat loss is possible when you work with your body, not against it. Jovi: The other half of Jovita Lifestyle, alongside his wife Evita. Jovi has guided hundreds of women to lasting weight loss, better health, and a more peaceful relationship with their bodies—without the extremes, guilt, or burnout. As a former high-level personal trainer, he knew all the tactics—but it wasn’t until he walked through his own transformation that he discovered what really works. After losing 40+ pounds, lowering his cholesterol and A1C naturally, and choosing a balanced, sustainable lifestyle, Jovi found his true calling: helping women heal from the inside out. His specialty? The mindset work that changes everything. Because it’s not just about food and fitness—it’s about the thoughts, beliefs, and habits that shape how you live and feel every day. JOVI ISN’T JUST A COACH—HE’S A STEADY, COMPASSIONATE GUIDE FOR WOMEN WHO ARE READY TO STOP STARTING OVER, TRUST THEIR BODIES AGAIN, AND FINALLY BUILD A LIFESTYLE THEY WANT TO LIVE IN.

In this episode of Rebel Lotus, I sit down with Evita from Jovita Lifestyle Coaching to talk about something so many women silently struggle with—our relationship with food, our bodies, and ourselves. We unpack the grip of diet culture, disordered eating, and the pressure to look a certain way… and what it actually takes to break free. Evita shares her personal journey and the tools she now teaches to help women rebuild trust with their bodies, create sustainable habits, and step into a healthier, more empowered way of living. This isn’t about another diet. It’s about unlearning everything that taught you to disconnect from yourself. If you’re ready to feel better in your body without punishment, restriction, or guilt—this conversation will change something in you.

What happens when you stop playing small and actually face your life head-on? In this episode of Rebel Lotus, Jessica and I get into the real stuff—growth, identity, healing, and the uncomfortable truths that most people avoid. No fluff. No pretending. Just an honest conversation about what it looks like to break patterns, take ownership, and become the version of yourself you know you’re capable of being. If you’re in a season of change, questioning everything, or ready to level up—this conversation will hit.

A little bit about Misty Jayne, I grew up thinking as long as I could afford the minimum payments on the credit card I could buy whatever I wanted. This belief combined with a real love for having a good time led to almost $50,000 in consumer debt by the time we had my son in 2015. My husband and I were living in a small townhouse we didn’t love and we felt like the second we got our pay-checks they were gone and we felt strapped, poor and like we were drowning in our debt. Our one true desire was to move our family into a home in a beautiful, safe neighborhood, but we both accepted that we chose the wrong careers and could never afford it… until I had the realization that changed everything. I realized our lack of intention and reckless spending was costing us the one thing we actually wanted. I realized I was spending to try to look like I had my financial shit together… while my financial habits were making the opposite true. We paid off $48,000 in debt exactly 2 years to the day we cut up our credit cards. 8 months later we closed on our dream home in a neighborhood we never thought we could afford. I’m writing this from that house and I pinch myself every morning when I wake up in it. So, _I didn’t just wake up one day and decide to start coaching stylists on getting out of debt_ and building healthy relationships with money… it called to me in a way nothing ever has before.    https://www.mistyjayne.com/   Follow us on IG @Rebel.lotus

What happens when the fairy tales we were promised in purity culture don’t match real life? In this episode, Danielle and Sarah get candid about dating after purity culture, navigating divorce, and redefining what marriage and relationships can look like outside of rigid rules. Together, they unpack the myths they were handed, share the lessons they’ve learned, and offer encouragement for anyone rebuilding love and trust on their own terms. Listeners will walk away feeling seen, validated, and reminded that it’s never too late to write a new story. Follow us on IG @Rebel.lotus

Danielle and Sarah, lifelong friends who grew up in the fundamentalist homeschooling movement, explore the vital role of women’s friendships in growth, resilience, and empowerment. Together, they share personal stories, meaningful conversations, and fresh perspectives on how authentic connection shapes our lives. Sarah is a world-renowned photographer, traveler, and arts advocate based in Oakland, where she supports immigrant artists through her nonprofit work—always with her beloved dog Edith by her side. Follow us on IG @Rebel.lotus

Follow Jessica at @Polishandpout on all platforms.  She also Just started her own podcast! Go check her out its called The Prosperous Pro" Her website is www.polishandpout.com Follow us on IG @Rebel.lotus